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How Affirmations Can Help Keep You Strong

How Affirmations Can Help Keep You Strong

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An affirmation is a short sentence you repeat so that it is there when you need it. It works as a reminder, not as a magnet: saying “I am calm” does not attract calm from anywhere, and it will not bring money, love or health to your door. What a well-made affirmation does is interrupt an old automatic thought with a truer one at the moment the old thought fires. Tarot is a handy source for these sentences because each card is already a compact picture of one quality, and a picture is easier to recall under pressure than a slogan.

Writing affirmations from the cards

Start with the thought you want to answer, not the card. Write down the sentence that runs in your head on a bad day, such as “I always mess this up” or “I cannot cope with another week of this.” Then look through the Major Arcana and the court cards for an image that shows the opposite quality in action. Strength in the Rider-Waite-Smith deck shows a woman gently closing a lion’s mouth, so a sentence drawn from it might be “I can be gentle and firm at the same time.” The Eight of Pentacles shows a craftsman working steadily through a row of coins, which becomes “Small practice adds up.”

Keep each sentence modest and specific. Affirmations that are far from what you believe tend to produce an inner argument rather than reassurance, so “I am completely confident” usually loses to the critic, while “I have done harder things than this” holds up. Aim for sentences you could defend to a sceptical friend. Pair each one with its card, keep the card somewhere you will see it, and say the sentence when you see the picture. The pairing is the point; it works the same way as a photo on a desk, and nothing more mysterious than that. If you want a slower way to spend time with a single card, the five-minute card meditation fits well alongside this.

Card What the image shows An honest affirmation drawn from it
Strength A woman calmly closing a lion’s mouth I can be gentle and firm at the same time.
Four of Swords A knight lying at rest in a chapel Rest is allowed, and it is part of the work.
Eight of Pentacles A craftsman carving one coin after another Small practice adds up.
Two of Wands A figure holding a globe, looking out from a wall I can choose my next step, even a small one.
The Star A figure pouring water under a clear sky after the Tower I have come through hard things before.
Queen of Swords A queen seated with a raised sword, facing forward I am allowed to say what I mean plainly.

Keep in mind: Card meanings are traditions attached to the Rider-Waite-Smith deck, not findings, and repeating a sentence does not change events outside you or predict anything. Affirmations are a small self-care habit; they are not treatment for anxiety, depression or addiction, and a doctor or therapist is the right person to talk to about those. In the US, if you have thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988.

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